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That In-Between Phase Where Nothing Makes Sense Yet

Writer: Rhonda Large
Rhonda Large
Aug 26
2 min read

There are seasons in life where nothing feels clear.


The old way of living doesn’t fit anymore. But the new direction hasn’t fully revealed itself.


You feel different…


but can’t explain how.


You know something is shifting…


but don’t know where it’s leading. This is the in-between.


And it’s more common, and more meaningful, than most people realise.


🌙 The Old Chapter Is Closing


Before a new phase begins, the old one slowly loosens its hold.


You might notice:

  • Familiar routines feel heavier

  • Conversations feel different

  • Things that once mattered now feel flat

  • You feel restless without knowing why


This can feel unsettling, but it’s often a sign you’re outgrowing something, not losing direction.


🧠 The Mind Hates Not Knowing


Our minds like plans, timelines, and clear outcomes.


The in-between offers none of that.


So doubt creeps in:


“What am I doing?”
“Why don’t I feel like myself?”
“Have I made a mistake?”

But growth rarely announces itself with certainty.


It begins as discomfort and uncertainty before clarity arrives.


✨ You’re Between Identities


This phase isn’t just external, it’s internal.


You’re no longer the version of yourself you were…but you haven’t fully stepped into who you’re becoming.


That space can feel lonely, disorienting, and fragile. But it’s also where deep transformation happens.


🌿 Tarot Meets You Here Gently


The in-between is where tarot can feel especially grounding.


Not to give you a detailed map, but to help you understand:


  • What you’re shedding

  • What’s emerging beneath the surface

  • Why this phase feels emotionally intense

  • Where you still have inner stability, even if life feels unclear



Sometimes understanding the process eases the fear.


🤍 Confusion Doesn’t Mean You’re Lost


When things don’t make sense, people often think they’re failing.


In reality, clarity often disappears before a new direction becomes visible.


The fog isn’t punishment. It’s transition.


🌙 Something Is Forming Quietly


Even when you can’t see it, change is happening beneath the surface.


New perspectives. New boundaries. New priorities.


They’re taking shape internally before appearing externally.


💜 You Don’t Have to Rush This Phase


The in-between can’t be forced.


It asks for patience, gentleness, and trust in your own unfolding.


Tarot doesn’t speed it up, it helps you feel steadier while you move through it.


✨ In Simple Terms


You’re not lost. You’re becoming.


💫 True power lies within. Sometimes clarity fades before a new path reveals itself.

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